Parents' hands tearing out babysuit, child custody battle

Custody is a tricky area no matter what the age of your child. The needs
of a tiny infant are vastly different than those of a teenager. When crafting
a parenting schedule, it is important to be sensitive to the particular
challenges associated with the ages of your children and their

Infants require specialized attention and care. New Jersey law does not
provide a preference to mothers just because of their gender. In New Jersey,
both parents have equal rights to the child. However, the visitation schedule
will be set up based on a child’s best interest. For infants, this
typically provides that the parents have frequent, short visits with the
baby. This lets the baby build a bond with both parents while not suffering
from separation anxiety due to being separated from either parent for
long periods of time. Usually as the child gets older, the periods of
visitation will get longer. In general, the goal for an infant is to provide
maximum contact and stability while also providing the other parent with
as much time as possible to build a relationship with the child. For toddlers,
the same usually applies, except that the length of the visits and, therefore,
the separation from the other parent, can usually be longer.

Teenagers, on the other hand, need to be handled completely differently.
Parents need to carefully consider the school requirements of the child.
If one parent is remaining in the marital residence, it may be preferable
for the child to reside primarily with that parent in order to allow the
child to stay in the same school district. Proximity to the child’s
friends and any extra-curricular activities should also be considered.
Maintaining stability for the child during the chaotic time of divorce
will help the child transition to the new “normal” of split
households. Keeping the same school and geographic situation can help
with the feeling of stability. Contrary to popular belief, there is no
magical age that a child gets to decide where he or she lives. However,
the court may interview the child and determine the child’s preference
to be used as a factor in the analysis. It’s not always for the
best to have a child testify, so this should be carefully weighed before
the decision is made to use child testimony. Sometimes children feel that
their parents are putting them in the middle and it can cause friction
in the parent-child relationship.

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with the sensitive issues associated with each stage of life for your children.
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Christina Previte

Christina Previte

Christina Previte, an accomplished divorce lawyer, has focused exclusively on divorce and family law since 2004. As a co-founder of Netsquire, she addresses a significant gap in the divorce industry. Christina provides couples with options for a more peaceful divorce. With degrees from Rutgers University and Rutgers Law School (Camden), including a judicial law clerk role, Christina’s experience is undeniable.

Her recognition on the Super Lawyers “Rising Star” and Super Lawyer lists reflects her commitment to transformative divorce practices. Through Netsquire, Christina streamlines divorce into three crucial steps: resolving legal matters, securing a signed settlement agreement, and navigating court filings. With a client-centric approach, Christina reshapes the divorce journey, guiding families toward smoother transitions and brighter beginnings.

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