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A loving, nurturing extended family is an ideal situation that any parent
would love to have for their child. An expanded net of support for a child
that will provide love, attention, and guidance is surely an arrangement
that would benefit any young person. Problems can and often do arise,
however, when relationships with extended family turns sour. If a parent
makes a decision to cut off contact between children and extended relatives,
especially grandparents, sometimes those relatives can seek judicial intervention.
It is important to note that the United States Supreme Court has weighed
in on this issue. In
, the Supreme Court ruled that in that case, grandparent visitation infringed
on the Constitutional rights of the mother. According to
Troxel and other authority, the right of a parent to make decisions about who
should be included in a child’s life is protected by the U.S. Constitution.

That being said, New Jersey law does provide some avenues for grandparent
visitation. First, a grandparent must prove that visitation between the
grandparent and the child is necessary to avoid doing harm to the child.
Relevant evidence to this inquiry will include such factors as whether
the grandparent has a strong bond with the child, whether the grandparent
was the sole caretaker for the child in the recent past, and whether the
child resided with the grandparent for a significant period of time. Merely
asserting that a grandparent has a good relationship with a child is not
enough; a grandparent must prove that the child will suffer actual, specific
harm if deprived of the grandparent’s relationship. If the grandparent
can overcome that hurdle, then the parent must make a proposed visitation
schedule. If the grandparent disagrees with the schedule, then the court
will make a determination as to what schedule is in the child’s
best interest, based on the factors in New Jersey law.

There are chances for other parties to file a third-party custody suit,
besides grandparents. Under NJSA 9:2-4, “any person” may file
a suit for custody if the parents are “grossly immoral or unfit”
or otherwise endanger the welfare of the child. As in grandparent visitation
cases, there is a heavy presumption in favor of the parent, as the parent’s
rights are protected under the U.S. Constitution. Taking custody from
a parent and granting it to a non-parent is a difficult burden, and the
courts do not take it lightly.

If you are facing a suit for grandparent visitation or if you are a grandparent
who has been cut off from your grandchild, contact us today at (732) 479-4711
in third party visitation and custody cases and can review your case with you.

About the Author


John Nachlinger is a co-founder and managing attorney of Netsquire, a family law firm focused on streamlining divorces through effective mediation, settlement drafting, and court filing assistance. As a New Jersey Supreme Court Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney and Qualified Mediator, John guides couples toward equitable agreements without the cost and stress of litigation.

Recognized as a New Jersey Super Lawyer for over a decade, John’s client-focused approach aims to foster understanding during challenging transitions. With a background spanning top law journals, judicial clerkships, and boutique family law firms, John now applies his analytical skills to create workable solutions for all parties. His mediation services reshape the divorce journey by prioritizing compassion and compromise.

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