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No one is perfect, although we all try to be as perfect as possible for
our children. In custody battles, the court will look to the past behavior
of the parents to determine what custody arrangement is in the
. When you have skeletons in your closet, an examination of your history
can be intimidating. The good news is that past indiscretions don’t
automatically have any impact on your custody case. Whether your past
will result in an unfavorable custody order for you depends in large part
not only on what happened, but when it happened. The more remote in time
your mistake, the less likely it is to have any bearing on the outcome
of your case. For example, if the other parent is convicted of shoplifting
six months before the final hearing, the judge will definitely give that
more consideration than a shoplifting charge from three years ago.

New Jersey law gives special consideration to particular crimes, however,
in custody cases. Specifically, domestic violence and child abuse can
play a big role. In the best interest factors set out in New Jersey statute,
a trial court must give due consideration to a parent’s history
of domestic violence and also that the child needs to be free of physical
abuse. Note that neither of these factors require a criminal conviction
in order for the judge to consider past incidents of abuse of the other
parent or of a child.

The best interest factors also state that the court shall give consideration
to each parent’s “fitness.” Fitness is a nebulous term,
but is often applied to cases involving current or past substance abuse.
With substance abuse numbers rising, courts take allegations of substance
abuse very seriously. Evidence that the other parent in your case is abusing
alcohol or drugs can demonstrate that the other parent is unfit. Understand,
though, that if a parent has been clean for a period of time, it is unlikely
that the parent will lose parenting time because of past substance abuse
problems. The longer the time the parent has remained clean and sober,
the less likely it is that the addiction will result in loss of custody
or parenting time.

Infidelity, although hurtful, is unlikely to have large ramifications in
a custody suit, even if the infidelity is recent. However, if the new
boyfriend or girlfriend of your spouse is unsuitable to be around children,
this may be relevant. Unsuitable typically means there has to be something
seriously wrong, such as being a convicted felon or a drug addict.

If you are concerned about your history and how it will impact your custody
case, contact us today at (732) 529-6937.
in providing guidance to our clients to get to their future goals while
not being hindered by their past mistakes.

Christina Previte

Christina Previte

Christina Previte, an accomplished divorce lawyer, has focused exclusively on divorce and family law since 2004. As a co-founder of Netsquire, she addresses a significant gap in the divorce industry. Christina provides couples with options for a more peaceful divorce. With degrees from Rutgers University and Rutgers Law School (Camden), including a judicial law clerk role, Christina’s experience is undeniable.

Her recognition on the Super Lawyers “Rising Star” and Super Lawyer lists reflects her commitment to transformative divorce practices. Through Netsquire, Christina streamlines divorce into three crucial steps: resolving legal matters, securing a signed settlement agreement, and navigating court filings. With a client-centric approach, Christina reshapes the divorce journey, guiding families toward smoother transitions and brighter beginnings.

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