The length of mediation depends on what issues have been agreed to prior to mediation and what needs to be addressed by the mediator. Also, the amount of time spent in mediation is based on you and your spouse’s willingness to come to an agreement. The time spent in mediation can be reduced if you and your spouse resolve some issues prior to mediation so that the issues are narrowed. In our experience, divorce mediation may require several sessions. Again, the length of mediation will depend on the issues to be resolved, the complexity of those issues and the level of animosity the parties have for one another. If either one of the spouses is unwilling to move from their position on a particular issue, mediation may not work and the divorce may have to proceed to court. This is when the costs increase substantially and the “fight” beings.
According to a study published in Money magazine, the average divorce mediation costs around $3,000 and took approximately three months. We provide you that report as opposed to our experience because it is hard to give an average cost. We have had mediation cases cost only $1,000 and take one mediation session. We have had others take a full year and cost more than $10,000. The number of issues, the information needed, the complexity of the issues and the emotional state of the parties are all factors in the how long divorce mediation takes and, in turn, how much it costs.
Importantly, the cost of litigating your divorce instead of resolving it through mediation can be financially devastating. The average litigated divorce in New Jersey costs approximately $10,000 to $15,000 and takes between 12 and 24 months. If your case does not settle, a trial can cost $25,000 to $50,000 or more. No one knows your situation like you do. We stress that you do not want a judge, who is a stranger to your life, to make decisions about how to resolve your divorce. By going to mediation, you and your spouse have all the power to reach an agreement that you think it fair and reasonable under the circumstances. Also, remember that divorce in the court system is public. Anybody can sit in court and hear about your life. Divorce mediation is confidential, private and conducted behind closed doors.
Our firm offers divorce mediation services to clients all across New Jersey.
Want to learn more? Contact us to schedule a mediation session with the divorce mediators at Netsquire.
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Four flat-fee divorce options designed for New Jersey couples who want predictable costs, clear timelines, and peaceful resolutions.
Click HEREBest For: No children, no real property, amicable split
Features
✓ Intake Session
✓ Simple terms in divorce judgment
✗ No Mediation Sessions
✗ No Negotiation Support
✓ Up to 1 hour Communication Time
✓ 2 document revision rounds
✓ Judgment of Divorce Court Filing
✓ 30-min strategy call (Post Divorce Settlement)
Ideal Situation
• Married less than 5 years
• No children together
• No shared property
• Both agree to divorce
Best For: Children and/or property, already agreed on terms
Features
✓ 60 minutes Initial Strategic Call
✓ Comprehensive agreement
✗ No Mediation Sessions
✗ No Negotiation Support
✓ Up to 1 hour Communication Time
✓ 2 document revision rounds
✓ Judgment of Divorce Court Filing
✓ 30-min strategy call (Post Divorce Settlement)
Ideal Situation
• Have children and/or property
• Already discussed major terms
• Both ready to finalize
• Want professional documentation
Best For: Need guidance to reach agreement, both willing to work together
Features
✓ Preparation Video and Materials
✓ Mediation Sessions Up to 3 hours via Zoom
✓ Guided mediation process
✓ Comprehensive agreement
✓ Up to 1 hour Communication Time
✓ 2 document revision rounds (each party)
✓ Judgment of Divorce Court Filing
✓ 30-min strategy call (Post Divorce Settlement)
Ideal Situation
• Need help reaching agreements
• Both willing to compromise
• Want neutral guidance
• Prefer collaboration over conflict
Best For: Close to agreement but need help finalizing with spouse/attorney
Features
✓ 60 minute strategy session
✓ Comprehensive agreement
✗ No Mediation Sessions
✓ Up to 4 hours with spouse/attorney
✓ Up to 2 hour Communication Time
✓ 2 document revision rounds
✓ Judgment of Divorce Court Filing
✓ 30-min strategy call (Post Divorce Settlement)
Ideal Situation
• 80% agreed on terms
• Spouse has attorney
• Need negotiation help
• Want strong advocacy
Results may vary depending on your particular facts and legal circumstances, and cannot be guaranteed.
From custody to visits to holidays, we’ll walk you through every decision you need to make in order to move on with your life while protecting your kids.
Should there be alimony? What about child support? How are your children’s expenses going to be shared? We’ll help you figure it all out.
We’ll help you decide how to divide your marital home, bank accounts, retirement accounts, cars, debt, and anything else you need to split up.
Once you create an agreement about your money, your children, and your stuff, we’ll file all your documents and make sure your divorce is done quickly and correctly.
Most law firms don’t know how to resolve divorce. They only know how to fight – because that’s how it’s always been done.
At Netsquire, we’ve ripped up the divorce playbook to make it quicker, simpler, and drama-free. We offer online mediation and document prep services, all for one transparent, flat fee.
With a whole lot of experience under our belts—decades, in fact—we’ve given thousands of couples the nudge they needed to move past divorce and rediscover their happy place.
We’re not just attorneys. We’re your guides, allies, and advocates. We’ll navigate this journey with you, prioritizing your peace of mind and financial health along the way.
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Choose the plan and payment option that work best for you. If you change your mind before we draft any documents or your mediation begins, we’ll refund 100% of your money (less the 3% credit card processing fee if applicable). That includes after your initial strategy session with your attorney: if you hear the plan and decide not to move forward, you get a full refund, and that strategy-session refund applies to every Netsquire client, not just flat-fee plans. If you cancel after work is underway, we’ll refund you on a prorated basis for the work not yet completed, no questions asked. Don’t gamble on your future. Pick the plan that works for you and commit to divorcing the better way.